Experiences in Close Relationships Questionnaire

Dear Applicant,

We extend our heartfelt gratitude for considering participation in the Integrated Meditation Program. This survey is an integral part of our commitment to fostering transformative experiences for our participants. It should only take 10-15 minutes to complete.

Before you proceed, we want to ensure that you have a comprehensive understanding of the purpose, process, and privacy measures associated with this survey.

Purpose and Procedures: The Integrated Meditation Program aims to create a path towards growth and self-discovery, rooted in meditation and the transformation of negative core beliefs. As part of our assessment process, we employ the Experiences in Close Relationships Revised (ECR) questionnaire. By administering this questionnaire both before and after the program, we intend to measure and understand the potential impact of the Integrated Meditation Program on your meditation experiences and core beliefs.

Anonymity and Data Security: We want to emphasize that your privacy and confidentiality are paramount to us. All the data collected from this survey will be anonymized, ensuring that any responses you provide remain completely dissociated from your identity. No personally identifiable information will be linked to your survey responses. We have implemented a robust data security plan to safeguard your information from unauthorized access, ensuring the utmost protection.

Voluntary Participation: It's important to note that your participation in this survey is entirely voluntary. Your decision to participate or not will have no influence on your potential acceptance into the Integrated Meditation Program. Should you choose to participate, you retain the right to withdraw from the survey at any point, without needing to provide an explanation.

Self Care: If any of the questions are triggering, please pause. If you need more support to return to equilibrium, the video below is offered as a resource.

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Questions and Concerns: Should you have any questions or concerns about the survey, its purpose, or your participation, please feel free to contact Amma Thanasanti, Spiritual Director, at Thanasanti@AwakeningTruth.org.

Consent to Participate: By proceeding with this survey, you confirm that you have read and understood the information provided in this consent form. Your voluntary participation in the survey signifies your understanding that your responses will be used for research purposes. We greatly appreciate your consent and your dedication to contributing to our collective journey of growth and self-discovery.

Thank you for your consideration and commitment to this endeavor.

 

Below are a series of statements concerned with how you feel in emotionally intimate relationships. We are interested in how you generally experience relationships, not just in what is happening in a current relationship. Respond to each statement by selecting a number to indicate how much you agree or disagree with the statement.

1. I’m afraid that I will lose my partner.

Strongly Disagree
Strongly Agree
2. I often worry that my partner will not want to stay with me.

Strongly Disagree
Strongly Agree
3. I often worry that my partner doesn’t really love me.

Strongly Disagree
Strongly Agree
4. I worry that romantic partners won’t care about me as much as I care about them.

Strongly Disagree
Strongly Agree
5. I often wish that my partner’s feelings for me were as strong as my feelings for them.

Strongly Disagree
Strongly Agree
6. I worry a lot about my relationships.

Strongly Disagree
Strongly Agree
7. When my partner is out of sight, I worry that he or she might become interested in someone else.

Strongly Disagree
Strongly Agree
8. When I show my feelings for romantic partners, I'm afraid they will not feel the same about me.

Strongly Disagree
Strongly Agree
9. I rarely worry about my partner leaving me.

Strongly Disagree
Strongly Agree
10. My romantic partner makes me doubt myself.

Strongly Disagree
Strongly Agree
11. I do not often worry about being abandoned.

Strongly Disagree
Strongly Agree
12. I find that my partner(s) don't want to get as close I would like.

Strongly Disagree
Strongly Agree
13. Sometimes romantic partners change their feelings about me for no apparent reason.

Strongly Disagree
Strongly Agree
14. My desire to be very close sometimes scares people away.

Strongly Disagree
Strongly Agree
15. I'm afraid that once a romantic partner gets to know me, he or she won't like who I really am.

Strongly Disagree
Strongly Agree
16. It makes me mad that I don't get the affection and support I need from my partner.

Strongly Disagree
Strongly Agree
17. I worry that I won't measure up to other people.

Strongly Disagree
Strongly Agree
18. My partner only seems to notice me when I'm angry.

Strongly Disagree
Strongly Agree
19. I prefer not to show a partner how I feel deep down.

Strongly Disagree
Strongly Agree
20. I feel comfortable sharing my private thoughts and feelings.

Strongly Disagree
Strongly Agree
21. I find it difficult to allow myself to depend on romantic partners.

Strongly Disagree
Strongly Agree
22. I am very comfortable being close to romantic partners.

Strongly Disagree
Strongly Agree
23. I don't feel comfortable opening up to romantic partners.

Strongly Disagree
Strongly Agree
24. I prefer not to be too close to romantic partners.

Strongly Disagree
Strongly Agree
25. I get uncomfortable when a romantic partner wants to be very close.

Strongly Disagree
Strongly Agree
26. I find it relatively easy to get close to my partner.

Strongly Disagree
Strongly Agree
27. It's not difficult for me to get close to my partner.

Strongly Disagree
Strongly Agree
28. I usually discuss my problems and concerns with my partner.

Strongly Disagree
Strongly Agree
29. It helps to turn to my romantic partner in times of need.

Strongly Disagree
Strongly Agree
30. I tell my partner just about everything.

Strongly Disagree
Strongly Agree
31. I talk things over with my partner.

Strongly Disagree
Strongly Agree
32. I am nervous when partners get too close to me.

Strongly Disagree
Strongly Agree
33. I feel comfortable depending on romantic partners.

Strongly Disagree
Strongly Agree
34. I find it easy to depend on romantic partners.

Strongly Disagree
Strongly Agree
35. It's easy for me to be affectionate with my partner.

Strongly Disagree
Strongly Agree
36. My partner really understands me and my needs.

Strongly Disagree
Strongly Agree

This information is very helpful to us. We will share the results of your test at the end of the Integrated Meditation Program.

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